Found my funeral song for when I ‘catch that plane’
Sure, I’m immune deficient, have dysautonomia and central apnea and did breast cancer last year, kicked its butt with a double mastectomy and chemo and keep it at bay with Tomoxifen BUT the best I can hope for is that WHEN I die… and its inevitable we all will, then I want to leave this world knowing I had a great time in this crazy playground and that as a Taoist I was grateful for the good, the bad and the ugly, all of which caused and complimented and highlighted each other. When my father died at age 59 from cancer of the everything I told him he was going flying, that he’d leave his body and fly. He was afraid of aeroplanes but this was a safe one for him to catch. And when I heard this song today I knew this was my funeral song. Play this one for my funeral for I will have flown from my body, caught a plane to a still and serene moment that will last forever and all I loved will go and be with me in that forever moment, and everything and everyone I loved will carry me within back in the world of the living and so I can never be trully ‘just gone’. John Denver, Leaving On a Jetplane, who, ironically, died in a plane crash.
of course I have a few more songs different parts of my team would like.
And this one is lovely too, Manx Lullaby
Donna Williams, BA Hons, Dip Ed.
Author, artist, singer-songwriter, screenwriter.
Autism consultant and public speaker.
http://www.donnawilliams.net
I acknowledge Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people as the Traditional Owners of this country throughout Australia, and their connection to land and community.
Related Posts

Donna you are brave, powerful and open….. thank you so much!
you never cease to amaze me!!!!
I LOVE it… “I did breast cancer last year”… that’s soooo, “I’m over it!”
yeah, I’m over it and I hope its over me too, hope we damned both had enough of each other. But if it comes back, I’ll dance with it and do my best.
guess in a sense its not ‘gone’ because i’m on hormone therapy to stop it returning… that only works for 5 yrs… then I free fall… oooo. my cancer was ER + … it feeds off my estrogen… so without turning that off, no amount of cut out tumors will stop the process trying to restart. and it is what it is, but I have 4 more years on Tomoxifen and by then they may have other strategies…. it will be Dec 2016 when I finish Tomoxifen. They may then put me on Aromatase Inhibitors… oh joy… but at least I’ll get to go a few more rounds, if I make it that far.
Oh, I love that song! Never thought of it as a funeral song, though! Very apropos! My dad died at 58. Makes me appreciate the life I am being blessed with. Thank you, Dad! I love you!
My faith explains that being aware of our coming death is one of the greatest blessings. In fact, one of our most consistent corporate prayers is to be saved from sudden death. Oddly, that’s what our culture says again and again, is “good”. “Oh, I wanna go in my sleep.” or “I just wanna go fast”… “not know it’s coming.” I’ve done serious chronic illnesses. I’ve done extreme pain that made childbirth look like child’s play. E.g., I quit counting the days of solid migraine at day 31 during a brain tumor.
But if we’re more aware, if we allow it, knowing gives us freedom to let the non-important fall away. Of course it’s rarely “simple”. It’s never simple.
Love John Denver ! My Dad is a huge fan so we grew up with his music and all still love it today ! See you next Sunday
I love John Denver too Donna, great choice!
lovely meeting you Laura, all the best walking alongside your tumor… I told mine, ha, you’re 3cm, I’m 53cm, I’m bigger than you. And you are still bigger than your tumor.
Lovely post, Donna! Love it!
ta, hope you are happy and well
Donna, I’m just reading your first two books, they are good medicine for me just now and they are what brought me here today. I just want to offer a link to a website I think you will love, it could even save your sweet life.
http://my.crazysexylife.com
May you live long and keep singing.