Autism – friendly Christmas tips for the eccentric.
- The christmas tree looks best when standing inside of the branches looking out through the lights.
- Don’t forget to tap the decorations, they sound good too.
- Shiny decorations are wonderfully lickable (but don’t eat them).
- Glitter doesn’t taste anywhere near as fantastic as it looks (what a mystery).
- There is actually something under the paper.
- Decorations are a far greater buzz when people want them put back on the tree.
- Christmas lights are best viewed through a strand of tinsel.
- We can all be santa.
- Giving starts with what’s invisible.
- The best christmas gift is the geniune smile at one’s own reflection.
- If nothing else, dare to whisper/hum/sing/type just for Christmas.
- Gifts are best appreciated in one’s own space.
- The cat often can’t eat well with people watching.
- You can make ‘snow’ from pretty much anything.
- Dressing up in tinsel makes you shine.
- Peace is having your neurotransmitters working for you are Christmas.
- Happiness isn’t mania, I’d rather smile like Mona Lisa than grimace like Cheshire Cat.
- I resolve in the New Year to BE and DO and SEE and and and and…. to calm down and chill out and actually keep up with myself (writing, art, sculpture and music composition are all acceptable artistic exceptions).
- I resolve to remember how lucky I am, to live in the moment, to walk the middle path (loving all my yuck and fabness equally as self acceptance), to love but not co-dependantly, and to know that those mountains are really just molehills under a microscope.
So when that time of year comes around, Merry Christmas everyone and a wonderful, empowering, self owning, simply be New Year to you all.
This entry is a poem!
Since I started school over twenty years ago, I had always been dazzled and entranced by the big Christmas trees they had in the assembly halls. The lights and the pine smell were my main triggers.
Even now, nothing beats the smell of a real pine Christmas tree. Just one sniff would take me back to 1985 and…I would be sent to the era of Duran Duran, orange and white buses in Greater Manchester and Thomas the Tank Engine.
I agree with the point on the cat not eating well in the company of strangers. This is the case with my Jack Russell Terrier.
Hi Donna (blah, blah, blah as you so rightly said yesterday in Cardiff),
thank you for another new insight into the fourth of my adopted ‘auties’. He’s a ‘naughty autie’ too. Your description of ‘cat people’ has opened a new door of understanding for me and I just wanted to send a thank you from a grateful parent.
‘Cat people can’t eat well with people watching’ absolutely sums him up and he is constantly far too thin for a six foot tall young man, and lacks energy because of this. We shall have to strive to find a way forward with this problem. At home he’s fine but anywhere else he’d rather starve.
He’s taking Omega 3 right now and we hope this will help him.
He’s a lovely human being with an incredible heart (which is often sad I think as his life is a muddle) and I pray that one day he too will find a ‘diamond’ as you did with Chris.
I’m ordering the Jumbled Jigsaw from JKP (we share a publisher btw) and feel that this will really help us to help him to help himself – if that makes sense?! 🙂
Good luck with the rest of your speaking engagements.
God bless. Felicity (also known as ‘ Sandy Row, The Velvet Bulldozer’)
ha ha, yes, fab, so I called Jenny Ms Blah Blah there. As for velvet, I can say only ‘fooosh’. Velvet is swimmable, a spa bath for the hands. And carpet rolls… now they are fun too.
🙂 Donna *)
Thank you for this Donna!
Best wishes!
Bek