For each of us on the spectrum the social communication issues are different… I’m face blind, didn’t process faces and bodies as a whole or get simultaneous processing of self/other until my 30s, am still context blind, 30% meaning deaf (at best), my prosody is sometimes odd because my word retrieval is sometimes mechanical and I have to try harder to keep my syntax intact…. and so my social style has remnants of these things… it makes me socially ‘klunky’, ‘out of sync’, even though I’m warm, friendly, empathic, highly sensing. Read the rest of this entry »

I just watched on Australian TV how horrendous the unemployment and homelessness is in America right now. Sure, maybe you’re afraid of needy people. They may seem like drowning people and you don’t want to be pulled under just because you reached out a hand. But many people who’ve fallen on hard times are not necessarily opportunists and give them an inch and that is in fact all they’ll take and look forward to being able to give something back. How do I know? I was homeless in my teens and intermittently through my 20s. So I pondered what each of us can do to get to know or constructively help those in these positions. Here’s some ideas : Read the rest of this entry »

I was asked re methylated B12 shots. Read the rest of this entry »

It is natural for children to dissociate before the age of 5 so spotting Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID) in children is difficult. Most adults diagnosed with DID began splitting around age 4-6 with others as young as 2 and as old as 10 when they first begin splitting and developing alters. Read the rest of this entry »

An interesting article on recent findings with regards to False Memory Syndrome. Read the rest of this entry »

Before I became an autism consultant in 1996, I had heard about a teen and a young adult who both ‘outgrew’ their autism by age 5. It was around 1992, before Aspergers had become a diagnosis in the English speaking world. Both had been formally diagnosed as ‘classically autistic’, one in the late 1960s, one in the late 1970s, both in an era where autism was deemed rare, 4 in 10,000, where one had to be quite recognizably autistic to get a diagnosis, far more so than today with a rate of 1 in 150 where almost any avoidant, solitary, developmentally delayed child with delayed speech who stims is diagnosed with ASD. Read the rest of this entry »

Dissociation is the ability to cut off from what is happening around you or to you. In its simplest form it is daydreaming. It is a skill all children have and which children with autism tend to overdevelop in managing a world they find overwhelming for a whole range of reasons. Dissociation, Derealisation (the feeling nothing is ‘real’ or that everything feels like a dream), and Depersonalisation (cutting off from emotions, detaching, inability to take experiences personally), are experiences most of us have had. Dissociative disorders are where these create problems with functioning and coping in every day life. Read the rest of this entry »

I’ve met Aspies with and without Personality Disorders... including some with NPD, BPD and Antisocial… but more often those with Avoidant, Dependent, Obsessive-Compulsive or Schizoid personality disorders… so if their PDs constituted 50-70% of what they and others termed their AS, and they were proud of their ‘AS’, are THOSE ONES actually inadvertently saying they are celebrating ‘Personality Disorder pride’? Read the rest of this entry »

I grew up with someone who likely fitted psychopathy, Narcissistic (NPD), Borderline (BPD) and Sadistic personality disorders who was also an alcoholic. So whilst each of these disorders contributed to my developing Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID), and I do not have BPD, I’ve been traumatized by the idealisation/demonisation extremes of my abuser’s BPD within this mix. Read the rest of this entry »